To Grow, To Burn Things Down, To Start Again
I wanted to quit, to move back to what I knew because the unknown was actually too scary.
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For the first twenty years of my life, all I knew was the suburbs. First, born and raised in Torrance, a sleepy suburb of Los Angeles, and then, to college, in Irvine, to an even sleepier suburb of Orange County. The safety and security, the sameness that a suburb affords a person is probably why my parents were happy in Torrance, and why they easily let me move to Irvine, a town only a forty-minute drive away.
I was born here, I may die here, there is nothing to do here.
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Our Band Could Be Your Life: Scenes from the American Indie Underground, 1981–1991
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Vivian Lee is a book editor and writer based in New York. Her work can be found in The Los Angeles Times, Eater, The Rumpus, and more. Follow her on Twitter @vivianwmlee or on the internet at vivianwmlee.com.
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